Problems ..??? would all have it. Our son seems to have problems, of course as parents we will help find a solution. Usually what we do? It all will depend on many things such as child's age, needs and ability to understand. But there are some specific tips you can follow to help overcome these problems.
* Discover your optimistic feelings. On the face of trouble, usually the children react to what they feel. We as parents is very important to show that we are trying hard to find a way to affirm anything in their lives, even if we were not able to finish it
* Try to be able to give practical help that you all can do. Physical support such as help with the set of goods or make your favorite foods, can make a difference, especially in time of crisis. Help, with all its forms, can liberate the energy that you have to get together with your child, even to reassure or explain something to them. Often friends or at least want to help, and allow them to do something for their relationships and build community.
* Listen to what your child feels. Children often have feelings in response to changing what they can not control. It is beyond your ability to make things better, but you can give your child an invaluable gift of just listening.
* Give your child the necessary information by using the easy ways. This is very important to provide information to your child about everything that happened. Including the possible consequences to be faced, although it is difficult to say the information, for example, any time you can say: "I lost my job and I worry about them. This may take a little longer to find a new job, but It could be considered later on the way out "or," since the mother came out, everything becomes very difficult. This will require a long time, but we will think of a way out how to make everything run as-is.
* Adjust your explanation will be provided in accordance with your child's age and ability to understand. Children are easily confused with the explanation that there is in the form of two versions that they can not understand.
* Share feelings you have with the children in the age and the right way. It is a challenge to calculate how to share feelings of sadness with the children. It is very important to be honest with children about our feelings, which certainly can be read from their faces and bodies. They can tell if we're sad, so it's important that we can share the sadness we feel with them. But it is also important to protect them from any pressure from the adult response to a serious situation that we are not an exaggeration or scare them.When you are curious what can you share with your child when experiencing difficulties, it helps to ask yourself: " Will I be able to share the feelings that I feel? Or "Can I express my deepest feelings about ini. Adults have different assumptions about changes from the children. Adults is widely considered a problem and will usually directly make long term plans. While the kids are always wanting to know bagaiamana change will affect them now
* Ensure the longer your child about what will happen to them. The kids will be asking questions like, "if it also happens to me?" "Who would take care of?" or "where I'm going to sleep?" You should be able to respond to children's attention by giving a concrete answer.
* Use the situation as an opportunity to teach a good thing
* Emphasize that we only tried, the results submission to the Almighty Allah Ta'ala
Hopefully useful ...
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