How to build effective communication with our children

How to build effective communication with our children ?
A big question we should answer with a clear heart and mind.
Communication with children should be build to create a harmony relationship between parent and children. How to build effective communication with our children, including the following:

1. Pick the right time to talk, do not force to serve our conversation when he was busy with his game.
2. Pick the right material to be discussed with children, do not rule that makes the child does not concentrate on listening.
3. Do not be too long in speaking or convoluted, so will provoke the father to excessive performance give attention to children or otherwise tend to relax
4. Look at his eyes with views of love and train children to become accustomed to communicating eye. That attitude is an honest and do exercises to make children more familiar with our.
5. Calm minds and hearts, do not take the time to communicate when our minds and our hearts are uncomfortable. This condition would make us unstable and easily goaded into emotional.
6. Train force their memory by giving the questions that yesterday we deliver. That way we can measure the concentration of children to our conversation.
7. Involve children to feel enjoying the conversation. If there is saturation and disinterest in children, do not force them to still serve, better stop and then search for what caused the child is interested. Strive for it does not happen again.